No News IS good news!

So – I haven’t updated in quite a while, because there has been pretty much nothing to update.  As of tomorrow morning, Ian has been at home for 3 solid weeks! 4 weeks in total if we include the first week, but Ian was admitted for a quick 3 days during that first week.

So – being home for a month means that we will have clinic appointments next week 😮  We’ll see Nephrology, Pulmonology and Diagnostic Referral Group (DRG) on Friday.

Ian also has his Early Intervention evaluation this week so that we can start PT/OT very soon.  It will be nice to have some direction on what we can do with him to start to get him working on progressing physically.

Last but not least – this week is CHD Awareness week.  Lots of people complain that CHD doesn’t get the recognition that other causes get.  And that is true. I have a pretty strong belief that it is up to us – as people whose lives have been affected by it, to do something to make that change.

Before Ian, I had heard of heart defects in babies. But, the two stories I knew were distant enough from my own life that I ignorantly lived thinking – I know kids that have that, and they are doing great.  Which is true.  But what they had to go through to get there was terrifying.  And, although they are doing great, its not over for them or over for their parents.

The truth is, there are SO many kids who are doing great.  Really great.  Adults that are doing great.  Interestingly, someone I work with randomly mentioined that he has a CHD and had open heart surgery as a baby.  We have come a long way since babies with HLHS had no chance.

But – there are still kids like Ian – whose diagnosis’ are so rare that not many doctors have seen more than a few in their career.  There are still pregnant mothers who have ultrasounds (sometimes multiple and at big hospitals) and their babies are not diagnosed.  There are still babies, kids, and adults dying WAY too young.  We need WAY more research, WAY more awareness.

Ian has Tetrology of Fallot, Absent Pulmonary Valve.  His missing pulmonary valve caused his pulmonary arteries to get huge. His huge pulmonary ateries compessed his airways in utero and restricted lung and airway development.  Many kids with Ian’s diagnosis die without ever even having surgery because their lungs are the problem, and doctors really just don’t do lung transplants on tiny infants.     We are so blessed that Ian’s cardiac surgeon (Dr. Morrell) was able to see enough lung tissue that he thought he could give Ian a chance.  We are greatful that we live in a city with a great children’s hospital with amazing staff who saved Ian’s life. We are grateful for all of the research done at c.s. Mott for kids with severe tracheobroncial malacia and for doctors who didn’t give up on our son.

Coming soon I’ll be setting up our team for the Congenital Heart Walk. We would love for you to join us to raise awareness and funds for CHD.

 

Okay – Back to our amazing boy:

 

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4 Comments

Lori Poellot (Palma)

about 9 years ago

thank you for the update and heartwarming photos of IAN. Only a Mom And Dad faced with the emmotional roller coaster of having a child facing Life and death every moment since birth thru many months of procedures and medical intervention can understand the journey your living thru. I commend you and your family . I understand your perseverance ,your Strength, moments of insanity, yet thru it all the Unconditional Love and Strength which only the Lord himself can make possible. Ian's personality bursting thru in these pics playing and growing into a Delightful little baby who has the strength of Prize Fighte. Makes one realize that our babies are stronger than any adult I have ever known. The hurt, yet they smile. The love is always in their eyes and their Minds do not dwell on the suffering, they grow still delighting in life itself and the new adventures which make them relish in every moment. If we all had this inner strength as adults, the world would be a better world. God Bless you All and give IAN a kiss on his beautiful cheek from a Mom Who understands your journey, and his. I pray for you and your entire family. Keep the feelings open and make your partner your a Rock. Many Crash , beat the Odds and stay strong in love with Yourself, your Partner, Your children and All who love You

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Katie Ryan

about 9 years ago

Meghan, Justin, Owen and the Amazing Ian~ Reading this update today absolutely made me melt into a million pieces and had to hold back a little tear of joy since I'm at work and don't want to scare people :) I am just amazed at Ian's strength! I can't even imagine how happy your family has been knowing all four of you can be under the same roof at night. We certainly miss you here at UofM but my heart is so happy knowing Ian is getting better and stronger everyday right where he belongs. I look forward to many more pictures of him and that killer smile:) All the best to you! Katie (Your sassy ginger nurse at UofM who couldn't get enough of you)

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Meghan Orbich

about 9 years ago

We miss you guys too and think of you often! Please tell everyone we said hi!!

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Debbie

about 9 years ago

So very sorry to hear of Ian's struggles. He is a little warrior! I, too, have had health issues that I have just recently been able to piece together. Have you ever researched MTHFR? It is a genetic defect concerning methylation on the cellular level in the human body and can cause many health issues. It may have answers for you as well.

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